Great question, Chris! In my opinion, any message that has wit and is appropriate with complete sentences (good spelling and grammar) will get a response. You can ask a question. I really hate messages with Hey beautiful, or hey sexy, I’d like to meet you. 🤮

You seem to be a very thoughtful person, so see what works for you.

I was on Bumble and I wasn’t sure if I’d even get a response with all the ghosting out there. I just started with a question on a common interest and then went ahead based on the type of response I received.