I asked a guy to split the bill on the first date and he had never heard of going "dutch" it in the last 100 dates he'd been on. I was glad I was his first dutch date, but he wasn't going to have a second with me.

Each one have their own beliefs about who should pay the check. I think as long as there is some balance, and the guy is ok for the woman to pick up the tab every once in a while, I find that fair. I was told going "dutch" is very impersonal and that's what friends do.