I didn't realize one can go on for more than six months with IDK. There is a lot to learn out there. I was just talking to my friends about it this evening - about how we don't have shared histories with the men we will be dating with regards to life's events like child birth, buying a house, etc., and that there is so much to learn and uncover. I'm rambling, but in short.....lots to learn and make decisions in very short time.