I hear you and I’ve watched those two movies multiple times. Can’t get bored. Love is all you say it is…..but then once it starts to feel like a burden, feel unsafe, feel like being with the person is eating into your soul then it’s time to leave. I know it starts off the way you describe, but after a divorce I don’t have a tale to tell on how is it that it can be sustained through the test of time. I’d love to try again and work on it.