I know that feeling. I say it's like the sliding door that I am standing behind. The door is my guard. I open it slightly as I practice to share my vulnerabilities and any threat to that and you will see the door shutting close.

Those of us who have been through relationship/marriage heartbreak and headaches before are warranted to be guarded and scared. But then again, being vulnerable is being real and that's where the growth lies too.

You can take as much time as you want as you are the master of your destiny.