I matched with a man who would text after 8:30 pm ONLY. He called himself "Mr. Mom" because he had a full-time job and was parenting four children. After 8:30pm was when he had some time to himself after his kids were in bed. He was a very engaging texter but just didn't have the time of the day to meet. He had every other Sunday when he was "kid-free." It took him a good one month to pick up the phone to speak and once we made lunch plans, he bailed the evening before. Clearly, he didn't have the time to invest in dating and getting to know someone. He was happy with the texting. I had to cut him off.