I must say I am more shocked at the comments people have made in reaction to your story.

I too was inexperienced with sex in my marriage. There is a lot of education that needs to take place here for both of you. Perhaps, a little more emotional maturity and sensitivity is what’s needed with your husband to make you feel safe and comfortable. It took me 20 years to learn that there is such a thing as sexual compatibility that is different from the emotional compatibility we feel when we are dating.