It's so true! I was the one who made sure people got home safe but it gets boring to be around a bunch of drunk folks who don't remember things the next day. One of my deal breakers in Love 2.0 was not to date a smoker, but I also was careful to understand their relationship with alcohol. In the initial stages of dating we do end up ordering a drink over dinner, but I made it very clear that I was a light weight and that I could pretty much do without alcohol.