Jill, I'm so sorry for the struggles. You were so articulate and clear about all the things that needed to be done and how you and Chris would help make it happen. You hit the nail on the head - you can't do much for someone if they are not willing to help themselves. I get really frustrated with people and their inaction as I am all about problem-solving and acting. No bitching and moaning!
I know you already know this, but what you guys are doing - the education and help you are providing- as part of your life's journey is incredible and invalulable for the lives you are touching. Stay on your course, same agenda but different place. With best wishes and heartfelt respect!