Kerala - I can empathize with you as I am in your shoes. I say a little prayer asking God for the strength to not let my children and their moods fuck up my day and my spirits. I tread lightly around them. These are some tough years. Most days I entertain the idea of running away or sending them away and asking them to return as adults. But then I read the books and listen to the podcasts that say that it is healthy for them to act like dicks at home with us. I sigh and move on with my day. Hang in there and know that you are not alone. And doing it alone as a single parent SUX even more.