Klara - maybe if the guy you meet is the real deal, you will know right away and won't need to take a opinion poll. But since you asked, Looks like the whole dog thing will get very old very fast with #1. Not sure about all the laughing though. Get to know him a little more and I would ask about the inappropriate laughing to see if he is aware.

Don't settle. I think we've been through enough BS in this lifetime for that.