Laurel, I couldn’t agree with you more on finding joy in being single and treating yourself. After my divorce, I did that for a couple of years and went on solo trips. I’ve always been an affectionate person who has so much to give. I also realized that life is better spent sharing experiences and I always include my friends and loved one in things that I do for fun. The reason I felt ready to find someone is for that companionship and intimacy that was lacking in my marriage. I am learning what it means to couple again and find that balance where I don’t lose my independence. Grass is always brighter on the other side, but I feel like I can hop from one side to another as I want.