LOL! For some souls (like me) with conservative upbringing, it took a heck of a long time to realize that I am responsible for my own orgasms. :)

I love your article and I don't have a rich history of dating but connecting in middle-age with someone after a divorce, and that too a gentleman, has been a fulfilling experience. We love our afternoon naps falling asleep on the couch watching TV on the weekends.