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Look for the Silver Lining when Co-Sleeping with Someone New

Sandy Maximus
5 min readAug 25, 2023

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Photo by Joshua J. Cotten on Unsplash

Do you toss and turn in your sleep? Do you make 180-degree turns in bed? Are you a light sleeper or a snorer? Or do you sleep like a log?

Is sleep important to you to function the next day or are you one of those who can get away with 3–4 hours of shut-eye every day?

My sleep is important to me. I don’t know about you, but I have always — even as a teenager — enjoyed my afternoon naps on the weekends if time and schedule allowed.

As a child, I loved sleeping on my stomach. I didn’t even need a pillow. In fact, I liked the pillow on my head. As an adult, I sleep more on the side, turning from one side to another. This is something that started while I was pregnant.

Sleeping on my side was conducive to spooning during a co-sleeping arrangement. I used to love spooning with my wasband in the earlier years of our marriage. I thought our bodies were sized perfectly for this position.

I bet you have your favorite sleep position too. Read Khaled Halwani article about decoding sleeping positions.

Bottom line: I love to sleep. I am a dreamer and have lucid dreams. I love going into my dreams and directing those scenes, sometimes sleeping a bit longer in the morning to find an ending to my dreams.

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Sandy Maximus
Sandy Maximus

Written by Sandy Maximus

An academic, a mother, and a wanna-be writer with interests from travel to tennis, personal stories, and life lessons.

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