No such thing as lazy....the fancy term is unmotivated! But I hear you. I was like that earlier this year. I wanted to enjoy my time off and not be bothered with the whole dating scene. I feel like I put in the time for myself and ready to explore with a shift in mindset - namely: things will happen when they are meant to happen. I just need to do my part to put myself out there and try.

Get back into it when you feel ready. I know we sign up for a lot of headache and heartache in the process, but maybe some joy along the way.