No, you are not being selfish. The love and attention you are giving your daughter are priceless. If you are afraid of her becoming self-centered- get a dog and split the attention between the two. And with two kids there are no guarantees one won’t turn out self-centered. Glad you are not worried about the clock. You can revisit this when you or your partner want to for reasons otherwise than what’s been the norm. Continue to enjoy your time now. 🤗