OMG, another new term to learn today. :) But I think I can relate to it…..tell me if I got it right: Scene #1: I come back from a tennis match and I am happy about the win.
Ex - what happened?
Me - we won
Ex - who was your partner?
Me - Name of partner
Ex - she’s really good!

Scene#2: I come back from the salon with a new haircut.
Ex - oh nice, it looks like a mop head.

Both of the above are insults. Which one is the dog-whistling?