Shannon - very nice to meet you on Medium. a) I haven't had coffee in my life, b) Congrats on your new venture, BabesRising. I have a daughter in that age group and would love for her to get some help with her mental, emotional, and spiritual health when she is ready. c) I love that you value your friendships. I do too. I met someone 6-months back who is more of an introvert. While I love him and spend so much of time with him in the initial stages, I am asserting myself now on spending time with my friends also as they play a huge role in my life. AND d) You have a very healthy attitude about meeting "your man." You've put a call out to the universe and it is conspiring as we speak on making things happen for you. Keep the faith!