That was me last week. This whole relationship thing is not easy as we all have our past trauma and experiences that serve as a trigger. It’s good that you are listening to your emotions. Being in love is a choice and you both will have to communicate by talking through these things. I need someone to listen to me and my bf is either so forgetful or checked out I find myself repeating the same story a few times over. But I’ve come to realize he is forgetful about several other things that don’t relate to me and has his coping mechanisms. Who wants another project? But are we going to get the perfect match ever?